The Creed of marriage.
say that one should speak from experience. I firmly believe in the seriousness and importance of marriage within a society. But what a thing is not all rosy. Married to a woman raised on the teachings of the gospel since childhood, after 20 years with 2 children and a home made, asking for the separation. This shook me about things I believe. Over time, the defeat and their bitterness has taken me many thoughts, and the main one is to write what I learned about marriage, because I "firmly" on social and spiritual institution called marriage (though you may not believe, as I said Ripley) . At that interests you, I invite you to share my life lessons.
Certainly the 1st lesson I learned in those days so negative, it is natural to feel anger and bitterness when you raise a separation. In addition, I learned that nobody is immune to that may occur (both Catholics and Protestants) and thus, happy marriages that vintage, and congratulations!.
I also learned that failure can lead you to look bad values \u200b\u200byou grew up, but if those values \u200b\u200bare really solid, resume the original path and avoid the crooked path.
As a child, I was raised in the Catholic Church in a happy family consisting of moral values, then going to profess the Gospel faith, and contracting marriage with a Protestant. In Catholicism, I learned to pray what is called the Creed. For brevity, I will not attach, but can refer to the Google Creed.
The importance of the years I learned to see in that sentence is that you need to know and repeat certain spiritual values, to assess and grow in Christian life. Basically, Christian doctrine, the creed is "basic" (pun intended).
Returning to the subject of marriage, and making connections with Christian belief, teaching me that life is left to share this trick:
(1) It is true that the family is the fundamental unit of society. Say that those who experience the way we live in a family.
(2) Marriage is the foundational root of a family. It becomes then the marriage, the pillars of society.
(3) But, marriage is the greatest blessing of God for a man and a woman. It is the extension of the society of heaven on earth why infidelity, divorce, family abuse are abhorrent to God's plan.
This will be disturbing me as a writer Navigator (posts) to perform theorizing about marriage, and issues surrounding (such as divorce, as discussed in this blog), and summarize basic axioms, which I called "Marriage Creed" referring to the principles that shape superfundamentales rational and existential marriage.
From now on, I begin to outline the principles of my creed of marriage. Everyone reading this post, you can adapt, vary, extend or reduce. To revisit and recommend to others. Even, I invite you to recite it daily, as the traditional creed. And, if you saw any value, because enough to ignore.
01. I believe marriage is a divine institution and is part of God's plan for life "blessed" the human being. And as an institution, has the same kind of mandatory compliance, as well as the military institution represented at the Pentagon. So, the Pentagon is a military institution that marriage a divine institution.
02. I believe marriage is a blessing from God. Reject it, or destroy it, is to attack with the good purpose of God in our lives. When two people love each other, God blesses this love with the blessing of marriage, marriage being the hose which water blessings God the life of a couple who loves.
03. I believe in the beauty of romantic love. And I think that infidelity, nor love solution is cooled and real enjoyment. Because I believe that true love can only be found in the couple.
04. I believe in children, who are a blessing from God, and that they should care for the purity of marriage in order to provide the best example.
05. I believe in family time. Call it a time of union, happiness, harmony, support, etc. The family is through marriage, so also those wonderful moments are generated by the marriage.
06. I believe in my partner's physical beauty. For whom I chose, was to learn to enjoy the pleasure of sexual love and heterosexual fantasy of beauty.
07. I believe in my partner's fidelity. Despite tough times, my partner is the ideal company of God for me.
08. I believe in the beauty of the feelings and thoughts of my partner. Is that making love to your partner, your feelings and thoughts are especially unique.
09. I believe in the warmth of his expressions of love. So I think in the warmth of his kisses, his hugs, his touch, etc. and everything that allows bodily love.
10. I believe in the divine rule that marriage is for life, and that only death can separate a married couple real blessed by God.
11. I that the person who conceived the idea of \u200b\u200bdivorce, does not think about God. Actually, this is a weak person, little or no spiritual values. Therefore, the inclusion of it in this blog.
12. I believe in the importance of the sacrifices made to maintain a marriage, despite the severity of negative circumstances that threaten its longevity.
13. I believe in the medicine of forgiveness, to heal all the spiritual and emotional ailments are feverish beauty of marriage which positively overcomes any circumstance that anger and distrust have been able to rise as a trigger that could affect the peace and perpetuity of marriage .
14. I in all the nice things that make my partner and my children. I value them. I admire them. They make me feel elated.
Why am I writing this?. And why in 1. person?. Very simple. Because many people speaking ill of marriage, because of their bad experiences. I was part of that trend. But, I thought and then I saw something that troubled me greatly: in every TV show, whether comedy or a Hollywood movie, not given to marriage, the socially and spiritually as it deserves. There the devil is very fertile ground and won.
also worried me that marriages are destroyed in all the churches: Catholics, Protestants, Mormons, Witnesses Jehovah, etc. For this reason, very thorny, every church should reflect on its share of responsibility to prevent the power of divorce to succeed on the strength of marriage.
In fact, divorce is now as natural and alternative to marriage. And, no, no, no, "not true." Emphatically I say: No, no, is that this is not God's plan.
Hence, and from my own experience, that cost me important years of life, I write this personal belief, for many people, you're going at critical times, discard the idea of \u200b\u200bdivorce. And if you are someone that you have a happy marriage, that reading this post makes you happy or happy to see what you are.
In the eyes of God, Marriage is a matter of honor. Marriage is decent and dignified. But it is a coin with two faces. On the one hand, the face of the institution of marriage, and on the other hand, the face of a married couple. If the couple does not work, it's not marriage that fails, but the attitude of the couple before the marriage, who do not properly honor their vows before God, and clearly were not worthy exponents of such a great blessing. And please, no marriage is a hot topic, which happens to be outdated, because to be a divine institution then has the dignity of perpetuity.
I think that a society of values \u200b\u200bis possible. But, a securities company is not built with divorce. So the wonderful opportunity give me the internet and take the opportunity to Blogger to do my bit in thinking that allow us to swim at the beach of values.